Hexagram 44, Line 2
Coming to Meet (姤)
包有魚
The Line Text
包有魚,无咎,不利賓。
There is a fish in the wrapping. No blame. It is not favorable to entertain guests.
The Commentary says: The fish in the wrapping: Indeed, it should not be shared with guests.
Interpretation
This line signifies the proper handling of a potentially disruptive influence at its very beginning. In the context of Hexagram 44, the "Coming to Meet" is initiated by a single, weak yin line at the bottom, which represents a subtle, perhaps seductive or corrupting, element entering a strong and orderly situation. The "fish" in this line is a direct symbol for this yin element. The second line, being a strong yang line, is in the perfect position to immediately encounter and deal with this influence. By "wrapping the fish," the second line contains and controls the situation. This action is correct and appropriate, hence "no blame." The warning, "not favorable to entertain guests," is crucial. The "guests" are the other yang lines further up. To share the "fish" would be to allow the negative or disruptive influence to spread, to become a public matter, or to tempt others. The wisdom here lies in quiet, decisive containment, preventing a small problem from escalating into a larger one. It is an act of private responsibility and discretion.
Guidance for Action
You have become aware of a subtle, potentially negative situation or influence in its early stages. It might be a rumor, a temptation, a character flaw in someone, or a small error. Your immediate impulse should be one of containment, not broadcasting. Do not ignore it, but do not make a public spectacle of it either. Handle the matter discreetly and decisively, keeping it under your control. By "wrapping it up," you prevent it from affecting others or growing into a larger issue. Avoid gossiping, complaining, or involving people who are not directly part of the solution. Your responsibility is to manage this influence privately and effectively. This quiet competence will prevent future trouble and is the blameless path.
For Love & Relationships
In a relationship, this line points to the emergence of a small, potentially disruptive issue. It could be a minor doubt, a fleeting temptation, an old insecurity surfacing, or a slight from your partner. The advice is to "wrap the fish" – to contain the issue within the relationship. Do not bring it to your friends or family ("the guests") for discussion, as this can amplify the problem and create external drama. Instead, address the matter privately and directly with your partner. If the "fish" is a personal temptation you are facing, the guidance is to control that impulse yourself, to "wrap it up" and not let it harm your relationship. Discretion and private resolution are key to maintaining the health of the partnership.
For Career & Business
A potentially problematic situation has come to your attention at work. This could be a flaw in a project, a disruptive rumor, an unethical shortcut being considered, or an employee with a poor attitude. Your position allows you to address this issue before it escalates. The correct course of action is to handle it quietly and efficiently. Contain the problem by speaking privately with the concerned individuals, correcting the error without fanfare, or squashing the rumor at its source. Informing the entire department or senior management ("the guests") might be premature and could cause unnecessary alarm or damage morale. By managing the issue discreetly, you demonstrate leadership, competence, and prevent a small problem from becoming a crisis.
For Financial Matters
This line serves as a warning about a subtle financial risk or temptation. You might have discovered a "can't-miss" speculative investment (the "fish"), a small, overlooked debt, or a minor error in your accounts. The wise action is to "wrap it up." This means you should control the impulse to chase the risky investment and keep your assets secure. It means you should quietly pay off the small debt before it grows, or correct the accounting error without alarming others. "Not favorable for guests" is a caution against boasting about a speculative venture or involving others in it. Keep your financial strategies and minor issues private. Prudent, quiet management of your resources is the path of "no blame."