Hexagram 13, Line 4

The Line Text

Interpretation

This line describes a moment of profound and fortunate self-restraint. The individual finds themself in a position of separation from the fellowship they wish to join. The "wall" is a powerful symbol of this division—it could be a misunderstanding, a social barrier, a competitive environment, or even one's own ego and pride. From this position ("mounting the wall"), one has a clear view of the situation and possesses the power or potential to launch an "attack"—to force the issue, to create a conflict, to express anger or jealousy. However, the line declares that one "cannot attack." The commentary clarifies that this inability is not due to weakness, but to a recognition of what is right and proper (義, *yì*). To attack would violate the very spirit of fellowship and unity that one seeks. It is a moment of inner conflict where the desire to act aggressively is overcome by a higher wisdom. One acknowledges the difficulty of the position ("困", *kùn*) but chooses to return to the correct principle or rule of conduct ("反則", *fǎn zé*). This conscious choice to refrain from destructive action, to step back from the brink, is what brings the "good fortune" (吉, *jí*). It is a victory of character over impulse, preserving the potential for future harmony.

Guidance for Action

You are currently in a situation where you feel separated, excluded, or at a disadvantage. There is a strong temptation to force a confrontation, to assert your will aggressively, or to lash out in frustration. You may feel you have the power and justification to do so. However, this is a critical test of your character. The wisest course of action is to hold back. Recognize that an attack would solve nothing and would likely damage the very relationships or environment you wish to be a part of. Step back from the "wall" of your anger or ego. Acknowledge your difficult feelings, but do not act on them. By choosing restraint and returning to a path of integrity and principle, you turn a potentially destructive moment into an opportunity for growth and ensure a positive outcome in the long run. Your patience and wisdom will be your greatest assets.

For Love & Relationships

In a relationship, this line points to a moment of significant tension, jealousy, or misunderstanding. You may feel walled off from your partner, suspecting something or feeling excluded from their world. The temptation to "attack"—by making accusations, demanding explanations, or starting a fight—is very strong. This line is a clear warning against doing so. Such actions will only build the wall higher. The "good fortune" comes from recognizing your own insecurity, stepping back, and choosing trust over suspicion. It is better to acknowledge the difficulty to yourself and wait for a moment of calm and clarity to address the issue constructively, rather than launching an assault from a place of fear. This restraint will preserve the love and fellowship you share.

For Career & Business

You may be experiencing a conflict with a colleague, a feeling of being overlooked by a superior, or a sense of separation from your team. You have identified a problem and may have gathered "ammunition" to launch a complaint or start an office-political battle. This line advises you to pause. While you may be in the right, an aggressive attack will likely backfire, creating lasting animosity and disrupting the workplace "fellowship." The wiser path is to refrain from direct confrontation. Acknowledge the difficulty of the situation, but return to the principles of professionalism and collaboration. Focus on your own work and integrity. Your refusal to engage in destructive conflict will be seen as a sign of strength and maturity, ultimately leading to a better outcome for you and the organization.

For Financial Matters

This line warns against aggressive or reactive financial moves driven by fear or envy. You might see others profiting from a speculative investment and feel "walled off" from the gains, tempting you to jump in without proper research (an "attack" on the market). Or, you might be tempted to aggressively pursue a debtor or engage in a financial dispute. The guidance here is to exercise restraint. Recognize the temptation and the feeling of being left out, but return to your sound financial principles and long-term strategy. Rash actions born of frustration will likely lead to losses. The "good fortune" lies in your ability to observe the situation without being drawn into a reckless gamble, thereby protecting your capital and maintaining financial stability.